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Friday, March 02, 2007 &

Hellos everybody , If you happen to want to tag later please please go to the tag boards and say hi to the person name flood , cause that my new in house spammer so must give him a warm warm welcome since it seems he wants to be a fixture on my tag boards. Haha ok as promised I think I am ready to show you the list of qualities I want in a boyfriend , bear with me cause its going to be a long long long list ok. Just before I start of this list in no way represents the girls of my generation and no it cannot be publicly reproduced or anything under any circumstances , least some adult stumbles upon it and decides to use the list as a representation of my generation , thus turning me into some teenage star ( highly unlikely , but I shall not take the chance , since anythinh is possible in this crazy world ) . My list is not in order of preferance , they are just rants of an odd teenage girl ....so here goes my bf list.............

He must be an intellegent guy , capable of witty conversation.
He must be pleasent looking , doesn't have to be drop dead georgeous but clean shaven and neat .
Must be undersatnding and sympathetic towards my personal and religious beliefs and not critsize them no matter what . Meaning he does not have to believe in god but he must not try to impose his thoughts on me .
Must be more than older than me but less than 4 yrs older.
Must be patient with me because sometimes I'm a little slow at grasping concepts.
Must not be stingy with his time , not that I need him to be around me every avaliable minute but I just need to sense that he care for me .
Must not get fustrated when I plague him with my problems.
If possible , Hopefully he and I will share the same moral concepts and beliefs.
Must not be a MAMA'S BOY , not that I want a guy that rebels against his parents and family constantly but I need someone with his own thoughts and feelings and someone that is not afarid to act upon what he deems necessary and is not afarid to incur the displeasure of his family for his gut.
He needs to have a definitive focus on his schoolwork and have a clear goal for his future. Not that it because I'm definately going to end up marrying the guy in the end but I find it motivational to be around such people.
He must be open to new ideas and willing to try things.
He doesn't have to be overtly romantic but romantic gestures once awhile would be greatly appreciated.
He has to be taller than me by atleast one and a half heads cause I'm really short.
Must be able to communicate his feelings to me and be able to listen to my feelings.
Being able to agree to disagree when we are of different opinions.
Must have a thing for showing affection and not afarid when it comes to public displays of affections . I'm real big on the hugs and kisses .
Must respect me as an equal , and respect my body and not force or attempt to coherce me into doing things that he knows I don't want to do.
Accord me the respect of being his girlfriend and be unembarassed to introduce me to his friends , similarly so will I accord him the respect of being my boyfriend and introduce him to my friends.
Needs to remember important promises that he makes to me and not make me sad by breaking them.
Hopefully , its someone that likes having kids around cause I adore kids.
He needs to be fianacially stable in a way cause everybody that knows me will know that I am a huge spender and fussy eater , even if he doesn't want to pay for my half , he shoulden't expect me to always pick up the tab.
He needs to know what he is getting into before he considers getting into a relationship with me because I know I'm not the easiest person to handle nor am I the most beautiful person in the world and I can be unreasonable at times.
Would love to have a boyfriend that enjoys reading books for once and hopefully he will be able to play a musical instrument.
I would love to hear somebody play Jian Jian Dan Dan on the piano for me.
He must be understanding , kind and have compassion for others.
Must be well mannered and able to interact with my family , cause I think I will definatly have to bring him home sometimes.
Must have a sense of humour and know how to take a joke .
Must be able to control his temper and think with a calm and collected head even when provoked.I shall clarify I don't expect him to be a saint all the time , I just need him to stay in control and make good decsions and not get himself hurt.
He doesn't have to like my friends but he has to atleast be civil to them and he has to accpect the fact that I do have alot of other guy friends and that I am close to and has to trust that I that I will stay true to him and I on the other hand will trust him when he is out with his friends that are girls.
Most Importantly I think He must love me and take me for who I am and not try to change me .